近日,《新加坡眼》收到一位妈妈的求助信。这位妈妈称,自己的孩子患有多动症。因为一次冲突,她动手打了孩子,随后有官员把孩子带走了,十几天了杳无音信;官员们还称要指控她虐待儿童。
到底是怎么一回事呢?以下是来函照登:
来自一位妈妈的求助
Hi, has tried to get help but no one helping. All push back to MSF (Ministry of Social and Family Development) and MSF covering themselves and do nothing. As my boy was certified as ADHD & PTSD. I has tried all sort of method to stable him to proceed to P2. Recently the family Center counsellor that did not render any help and 1 years come less than 5 times a years, report to Protection Officers saying I abuse mine child which I denial. Then at Students Care Center, things happen. My boy did not respond to all my method. In order to safeguard other children's safety, I had use the last resort by swing my hands on him and walk out. These officers immediately remove the child and said they will charge me child abuse. For these 1 incidents I got into this. Till now no news about the child and he never attend school at all. Do worry about his stability but what can I do? Can anyone advice or help?
以下是翻译:
你好,我试图通过各种途径寻求帮助,但没有人愿意帮忙。有关部门把事情推给新加坡社会及家庭发展部,但MSF也无所作为。
我的儿子被诊断为多动症和创伤后遗症。我已经尝试了各种方法来稳定他的情绪,并让他继续读二年级。最近,家庭中心的辅导员竟然向保护官员报告称我虐待儿童,但是我否认虐待儿童。这位辅导员一年来我家不到5次,也没提供什么帮助。
之后,学生托管中心那边突然出事了。我想尽一切办法来管教我的孩子,但是都不起作用。为了保护其他孩子的安全,逼不得已我动手打了他,然后就走了。这些官员立即就把孩子带走了,并称他们将指控我虐待儿童。就是因为这件事,让我陷绝境。
到现在为止,完全没有孩子的消息,他也没有去上过学。我很担心他的稳定性,但我能做什么?请求大家给我一些建议或帮助。谢谢!
身为多动症患者或亲友,要承受外人难以想像的压力。Unlocking ADHD是一个民间组织,帮助类似人士及家庭克服和应对相应的问题,还加强社群内部的联结,达到守望相助的目的。

新加坡眼收到这位妈妈的来信后,通过电话沟通得知,两周过去了她依然没有孩子的信息。随后,新加坡眼把情况反映给了Unlocking ADHD。
据Unlocking ADHD的理解,如果孩子从家长那里被带走,MSF儿童保护服务人员会与孩子家长或监护人取得联系。他们也给出了政府部门的联络信息:
https://www.sgdi.gov.sg/ministries/msf/departments/ss/departments/rpg/departments/cps
大家有什么好建议给到这位妈妈呢?